Friday, October 15, 2010

Faces that fascinates Babetude!

Babetude's in the mood to praise some female faces in this new post. And I would like to talk about something contemporary this time around after all the nice classic stuff we spoke about for a while now. After going international so many times, it would be nice to talk of some desi stuff today! So have a look at some nice Indian faces...

Oh yeah, I know it's kind of a frivolous topic but then once in a while a little fun is fine, right?

After travelling a bit and reading and researching so much I realise that on an international platform it's a totally different ball game. Many non-Indians think,the typical Indian beauty can look pretty but is not hot enough.It's difficult to experiment with her look and in the end she ends up looking the same and very typical over and over again.

That's why maybe we hardly had any Indian international actor or model who could do as well internationally as Jessica Alba, Gisele Bundchen, Salma Hayek or Penelope Cruz.

That way Freida Pinto is far more international in the sense that she could morph into various characters regardless of its nationality. Her figure, face and style are also best suited for the international platform. So she anded up right there...

Though she was hardly noticed in Bollywood(she herself said many thought she was too flat chested), she created quite a sensation abroad.She still has a long way to go but she's already made a really good start.


Now let's get back to where we were- the Indian beauties.

The new movie 'Dabbang', I heard many good things about. The film hasn't released as yet where I stay and I guess it's a film for the masses and not the classes.

But most importantly I really like the new girl's face. Sonakshi Sinha. It's not that I like her just because she's a star daughter.



There's something about a face that really catches Babetude's attention. The faces should be one of a kind, it should register and stay on my mind. Well, some say this one does look like a few Indian heroines of yesteryears'. But she's the modern version and is chic and dresses up really nicely.



Three years ago it was Sonam Kapoor who caught Babetude's attention.This girl looks very, very classy with her lovely long hair,long legs and chiseled facial features. And her amazing fashion sense which she presents at various events is like the ulitimate icing on the cake.

It's always good if an actress knows how to dress up.That way, it's easy to stand out in a crowd where the competition is so very intense.



A coupla years before that it was Soha Ali Khan. Well, some of these faces never went on to become big stars.

But I'm talking about just a few fasinating faces here with good bone structure and a different look. I must admit that I get mighty tired of seeing the same type of faces over and over again in the media. On Indian Television, almost all look the same. It's really very boring and many abroad who gather the courage to view Indian soaps at times, feel the same.

And the normal favorites and hit faces in the Indian movie industry don't interest me.



Frankly speaking, I never cared about stars as they are here today and gone tomorrow. No one could sustain as long as Aishwarya Rai Bachchan anyway! Yes, Kareena Kapoor could be the next one, but then it's also her family background that helped her in a big way.


Ash is considered an international beauty and no matter what her detractors say, that will never change.Will Smith, Oprah, Julia Roberts and closer to the country of her birth, Ashutosh Gowarikar and others have vouched for her immense beauty and charm.

Asin and Deepika Padkone, both Southern belles caught my eye when they made their first appearance on screen.



These two sure are true blue Indian beauties.


And for sure my old favorites, Amrita and Genelia who can really pass off as twins at times. They have developed a similar fashion sense too! These two can real be considered the perfect examples of homely beauties who can look youthful and bubbly for a long, long time!


Most of these girls I talk about aren't great actresses. I don't blame them much since there are very few substantial Hindi movies made. Soha is good with student/ journo kind of roles and Amrita with simple and village belle kind of roles. But there aren't too many such roles in Bollywood and the stardom has eluded both of them.


Riddhima Kapoor Sahni never went on to act. But her social appearances, modelling and her wedding and work always made news, thanks to her famous Kapoor background.She knows how to portray the face of a classy and dignified married woman from a respectable family. She looks quite like her mother Neetu Kapoor nee Singh, though Neetu was far more bubbly and lively.







Sarika was an amazing beauty of her times and still looks quite stunning. Daughter Shruti is very pretty too with a nice voice. I just hope she reaches her full potential and make her very talented actor parents prouder!




Ayesha Takia could fascinate with her face too,and her acting was okay. But weight problems got her a lot of flak.Now she's married and I guess we won't see much of her on the silver screen again.




Same goes for Esha Deol. She started with a bang, danced really well and she was liked a bit because she resembled her mother, dream girl Hema Malini a lot( though Mommy was far more charming and charismatic).She's making a comeback with Mommy's help, so maybe she will live up to some of the expectations finally! Let's wait and watch.

Saturday, October 2, 2010

Remembering the Mahatma

My tryst with Gandhian ideologies, like many other Indian children started with my literature school text books, when I got to read about his life story and also various excerpts from his very famous ‘An Autobiography of My Experiments with Truth’ and other work. There was Richard Attenborough's classic movie 'Gandhi' too. And of course later when I studied Indian history thoroughly while majoring in History.

But only now that I’ve become older, wiser and more spiritual, I understand his philosophy much better…

On the occasion of his 141st birth anniversary, I think I’m now able to finally write a few words about the man, the Mahatma, the father of the Indian nation, the man who made the country free.

So much has already been written, said and depicted about the great man, that with my limited knowledge I can only put forth some of my views here.

Mohandas Karamchand Gandhi was a great political leader whose persistence & philosophy brought about India’s independence. But most importantly he was great a spiritual leader and that's what I connect with the most.

I realize the reality a lot more now and it's a real great feeling to be enlightened and feel so very wise.

His ideas crossed over and influenced many notable being Rev Martin Luther King Jr. and Nelson Mandela.

And it’s not just all idealism. Well, many commoners might think it’s so and that his ideas of non violence (for which he’s mostly known) will never work in today cut throat competitive world where every day can be a struggle for the common man.

While doing my research on the Hindu religious book ‘The Bhagavad Gita’ I bumped into how he deciphered it.

Till now I and many other took one of our famous epics 'The Mahabharata' quite literally…As a story, not realizing as a little girl how much meaning it otherwise holds.


Well, sadly there weren’t anyone as such to explain that to me either.


Gandhiji in his commentary on The Gita had interpreted the battle (of Kurukshetra, the big battle which culminates the epic) as "an allegory in which the battlefield is the soul and Arjuna( the character that listened to Krishna's commentary which became ‘The Geeta’) man's higher impulses struggling against evil.


Now while exploring my own spiritual side, I personally realize that it’s such a beautiful interpretation.

So he talks about how that the war is constantly going on within man between the tendencies of good and evil." It’s actually all within us- the struggle between good and evil.

A spiritual development class I attended said the demons, the evil within one were classified as greed, lust, arrogance, unhealthy attachment and anger.

Other scripture and wise preaching would add in selfishness, envy, ingratitude, gluttony, ignorance, cowardice,slyness, manipulation, craftiness,cruelty, hypocrisy,sycophancy,apathy and vanity to the list as well.

So it's up to us- what should win and what should lose. It’s difficult for any human being to achieve that but one should ideally try for the good to never outweigh the evil.

Sadly most people end up letting evil win which combined together can wreak havoc and make the person who carries the vices look like a demon himself.

Whoever could reach that high level and conquer the same would rise up and become a great soul and become a great human being, a great person.

That’s simply what our religious leaders and gurus of different sects had achieved…

That’s how they became what they were and came to be revered forever. Thus they became what they became, achieved nirvana, liberation and so on.

And hence it’s said: The kingdom of heaven is within us. We just need to find it.

Only a few can while the rest drift around aimlessly through life.

I wish I knew and understood all this well before, but I was naive, a young teen and had no guidance to help me properly decipher things.

Now Mahatma means a great soul.

Rabindra Nath Tagore accorded and popularized a very apt name for the man indeed!


He was a doer, he strongly believed like a few wise men before him in practicing whatever he preached. He had said: "An ounce of practice is worth more than tones of preaching”.

It’s well documented how he would often test his desires and check if he could control them. It was another matter that he was criticized for the same as well.It's been well known that he always practiced 'simple living and high thinking'.

Along with other things, he checked his will power by going on hunger strikes. He totally believed in punctuality and loved to keep himself busy with work. He had asked people to not belittle any form of work as no work is big or small.

It’s so true because for the right kind of balance in the society all types of work are important (but of course the work shouldn’t harm anyone).

As Gandhi thoroughly imbibed selflessness in his life, it perhaps led to a few strains in his relationships with his family. He believed that everything he had belonged to everyone which kind of led to a slightly rocky and troubled relationship with his son Harilal( talked about in the Indian movie ‘Gandhi, my father’).

There are many similar examples about his way of life.

He taught people to love children (which ideally every wise man should do as children are the world’s future) and saw the image of God in them.

Vaishnavo jana to tene kahiye je.... was one of his favorite bhajans..

And it basically meant that one who is a vaishnav, knows the pain of others, does good to the ones in misery and does not let pride or ego take over his mind and so on...

Truly wise and noble, right?

His modesty he reflected and wanted to propagate with the quotes like these: "It is unwise to be too sure of one's own wisdom. It is healthy to be reminded that the strongest might weaken and the wisest might err."

He was a doer and he had said, "Whatever you do may seem insignificant to you, but it is most important that you do it."

He was a firm believer in practicing whatever he preached. He had said: "An Ounce of practice is worth more than tonnes of preaching".

And he would ask people to never lose faith ever by saying: "When I despair, I remember that all through history the ways of truth and love have always won. There have been tyrants, and murderers, and for a time they can seem invincible, but in the end they always fall. Think of it--always. "

The world is cruel and tough and it’s difficult to keep the faith all the time but this kind of inspiration is really wonderful to have.


Gandhiji was above religion.

Another favorite bhajan of his raghupati raaghav raajaaraam...iishvar Allah tero naam, sab ko sanmati de bhagavaan which when translated would say, “God or Allah is your( The supreme soul) name, and bless everyone with this wisdom, Lord.”

Sadly though the wisdom couldn’t be imbibed by all, was misunderstood and his life was cut short by a Hindu extremist.

He was greatly influenced by the teachings of Christ.


Martin Luther King Jr had later said: “Christ gave us the goals and Mahatma Gandhi the tactics.”

Some of Gandhi’s quotes and beliefs clearly reflected Christ’s teachings.
He exactly followed some things which Christ had preached.

It seems that's one source from which idea of non violence struggle, the passive resistance came from

He had said: "The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong."

"An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind."


He too was okay with offering the other cheek if someone would slap him on one.

Once he had said perhaps when the constant struggle with the British made him slightly wary :"I like your Christ, I do not like your Christians (he meant only, some I'm sure). Your Christians are so unlike your Christ."


He had quoted: "A coward is incapable of exhibiting love; it is the prerogative of the brave"

It’s sad that most people still think that goodness, patience and politeness is weakness.

His Birthday October 2nd apart from being ‘Gandhi Jayanti’ in India is now the ‘International Day of Non-Violence.


Talking of inspirations apart from the ones already mentioned, he inspired James Lawson, Khan Abdul Ghaffar Khan, Aung San Suu Kyi, and even John Lennon and a few others. Physicist Albert Einstein exchanged written letters with Gandhi, and called him "a role model for the generations to come"

It was good to see Time Magazine name The 14th Dalai Lama, Lech Wałęsa, Martin Luther King, Cesar Chavez, Aung San Suu Kyi, Benigno Aquino, Jr., Desmond Tutu, and Nelson Mandela, Children of Gandhi, his spiritual heirs to non-violence.

His ideals just continue to inspire …
US president Barack Obama had said just before becoming president: “Throughout my life, I have always looked to Mahatma Gandhi as an inspiration, because he embodies the kind of transformational change that can be made when ordinary people come together to do extraordinary things. That is why his portrait hangs in my Senate office: to remind me that real results will come not just from Washington—they will come from the people”
When asked once as to who was the one person, dead or live, that he would choose to dine with, he had quickly said, ‘Gandhi as he’s somebody I find a lot of inspiration in. He inspired Dr. King with his message of nonviolence. He ended up doing so much and changed the world just by the power of his ethics."

Sadly in the India Gandhiji made, there’s so much corruption and most people have moved away from his teachings, his way of life, his philosophy and don’t take it seriously or perhaps find it just too idealistic. The world as a whole would have been a much better place if the right philosophy was adapted by majority.
But maybe it’s the law of nature and the world can’t become like heaven…

At times as these one can recall what he had said, "You must not lose faith in humanity. Humanity is an ocean; if a few drops of the ocean are dirty, the ocean does not become dirty."

Just like how Paulo Coelho later said in the very famous 'The Alchemist' (that whatever you desperately want in life, the universe conspires to get for you), Gandhi had believed, "A man is but the product of his thoughts what he thinks, he becomes."

"Always aim at complete harmony of thought and word and deed. Always aim at purifying your thoughts and everything will be well."

I for one like a few commoners of my kind have a lot to thank for this kind of wisdom, which he imbibed, followed and preached.

Thankfully a few kind people have asked me how I manage to portray the image of a good human being and look happy, good and positive at most times. I think it’s because I kept the innocence of my childhood (when human beings have no vices as such, have no lust, greed, envy, ingratitude, selfishness, etc ) alive and gradually got influenced by good philosophy of this kind.

There’s a long way to go. But it’s a wonderful feeling to be on the right path, to be influenced by the right kind of things and to be cultivating lovely values. It makes life much more meaningful when one is of high spiritual order.

It’s all very idealistic, but I would simply say thank you Mahatma and all those who kept the spirit of the Mahatma alive in all these years and will continue doing so in the years to come!

Wednesday, September 22, 2010

Old time Rock 'n' Roll: The love affair continues...

Listening to rock 'n' roll is indeed a joy. When I'm blue, or feel a little down, it's music that elevates my mood. And if it's old time rock 'n' roll,the effect is rea; fast. And how can any such write up be complete without Elvis, the king of rock 'n' roll. He was someone who defined 'rock n roll' as a musical genre and also made it a big part of youth culture.
The king is regarded as one of the originators of rockabilly, an uptempo, back beat-driven fusion of country and rhythm and blues alongside guitarist Scotty Moore and bassist Bill Black. His fame has transcended generations and crossed boundaries.


At the age of 21, he became one of the most popular persons of the world. Even many who don't know American showbiz as such, know Elvis. I for one, as a child growing up in a small town knew very little about Hollywood, but knew Elvis pretty well. The legacy lives on...
There were many others who came, saw and conquered.
Check out more from the oldie goldie collection...
I must always admit that it was the Richard Valenzuela better known as Ritchie Valens' biopic La Bamba which I only saw not too long agoin TV, that got me stuck even more on rock n roll. Lou Diamond Philips did a wonderful job as a debutante. I've shed many tears every time I have watched the movie 'La Bamba'. Here was the story of an incredible teenager who achieved a lot but left every thing too early...

He was wise beyond his years. The support of his mother and love but also resentment(rising out of jealousy)of his half brother Bob is well portrayed. This youngster was different from his brother and the others. While other teenagers were seeking fun, he wanted to compose, write songs, be a star and really, truly love his girl Donna. This real life Valenzuela family fully supported that movie. Bob Morales and Connie Valenzuela came to the set to help the actors portray their characters correctly, and Connie makes an appearance as an older lady sitting next to Ritchie at the family's first party.

Lou Diamond Philips bonded greatly with the Valenzuelas and, at one point, actually became Ritchie to them. There was an incident when the actors began shooting for the final fatal scene and started boarding the plane. The scene was interrupted by Connie Lemos, Ritchie's real life sister who was only six years old when the accident happened. She hysterically tried to keep Phillips from boarding the plane. She was heard shouting, "Don't go Ritchie!

Please don't get on the plane! Why did you have to die?" Later she admitted she realized at that moment that she never fully accepted her brother's death.Of course it was a very hard thing to accept when the brother was just 17 years old and had just become a star...

Even Buddy Holly's wife(who was pregnant at that time) later admitted that if she was around that day she would never have let him get on that airplane. Wonder what would have been, if it was so... If that would have actually happened, the rock 'n' roll scene would have been different today.
The legacy truly lives on, thanks to the lasting power of the music and the true blue fans!

Thursday, September 9, 2010

Babetude loves Rock 'n' Roll

I've liked entertainment stuff from the 50s and the 60s so much that some have said that I'm born in the wrong era. Well, the passion is really intense and for a long time now. I've really wanted to time travel too and go back in time. So I don't really blame them.

Or maybe I was a rock n roll star, an actor or artiste in Hollywood in my previous birth.

Well, it could be you know, considering the undying passion since childhood, despite being born in a small town, somewhere close to the Far East, a little over two decades ago... Hey, now don't tell me that I'm freaking you out guys. Just telling you all, what I feel sometimes:-)

I must tell you all that rock n roll just turns me on anytime, anyhwere.

I love to dance. I've done some Hindi film style dance and some Latin which I'm supposed to pursue further. But I do the twist and all sorts of retro steps even better.I love retro outfits.

Elvis,Johnny Cash, Buddy Holly, Richie Valens et al- their music still rocks bigtime for me. I've never been a big fan of pop,hip hop or hard rock. And I'm mighty sure it's not so just for me.There are many others who feel the same about old school rock 'n' roll and there are enogh reasons for that.

The older folks would definitely still appreciate the music always for the nostalgia factor...


Elvis was indeed the king. A good actor- performer and a true blue entertainer.

Now listen to this lovely Buddy Holly song and you'll know what I mean. His talent was nipped in the bud but his legend lives on.Kudos.


When he was with his band members, they supported him really well. It's been more than 50 years since Holly left the world, but there are still many die hard fans who say that his music will make him live forever.

Then there was this super talented youngster Richard Steven Valenzuela better known as Ritchie Valens.

He hadn't lost his baby fat yet and was still in high school but destiny made him a huge star who could use his God given talent at a very young age. His raw beautiful voice sounded so honest, so deep, so true at an age when there weren't many ways to technically correct voices.

This guy's recording career lasted only eight months but he scored several hits during the period. He was an accomplished singer and guitarist who despite being left-handed, mastered the traditionally right-handed version of the instrument thanks to his eagerness.

He was really special in many other ways too. Here was a guy who was just a teenager but who knew how to truely love a woman. Check out the song 'O Donna' which was written and performed for his real life girlfriend Donna Fox. She's still known as Ritche's Donna and her personalized license plate reads "ODONNA".

The song and the lyrics beautifully bring out his talent and the earnesty in his voice.

And this was the guy who also made "La Bamba" popular. Now this was originally a Mexican folk song that he transformed with a rock rhythm and beat that became an instant hit and still is.

Here it from the pioneer of the Spanish-speaking rock and roll movement...


The movie La Bamba with Lou Diamond Philips( in his best role ever) chronicles this talented musician's life well and also talks about his mother's encouraging role in his career.


February 3, 1959, was a black day in the history of music, a day that took away three great musicians- Valens, The Big Bopper and Holly. It also reportedly led to the gradual decline of rock n roll( though the die hard fans keep it very much alive!)

It's said fans lined the streets and cried for days.

Don McLean with his popular ballad "American Pie" later immortalized February 3 the saddest day in rock history as "The Day the Music Died".

Don was then a young boy and a newspaper delivery boy.
Later he wrote:

"A long long time ago
I can still remember how that music used to make me smile
And I knew if I had my chance
That I could make those people dance
And maybe they'd be happy for a while
But February made me shiver
With every paper I'd deliver
Bad news on the doorstep
I couldn't take one more step
I can't remember if I cried
When I read about his widowed bride(ref: Holly's widow María Elena Holly)
But something touched me deep inside
The day the music died

So, bye-bye, Miss American Pie
Drove my chevy to the levee
But the levee was dry
And them good old boys were drinkin' whiskey and rye
Singin' this'll be the day that I die
This'll be the day that I die

Did you write the Book of Love
And do you have faith in God above
If the Bible tells you so
Do you believe in rock n' roll
Can music save your mortal soul
And can you teach me how to dance real slow...
"


Well, the real fans of rock n roll did do their bit well!

Friday, September 3, 2010

A poet, but only for a while...

India's biggest male star Amitabh Bacchhan is able to bring meaning to this very beautiful song. The fact that his father the late Dr. Harivansh Rai Bachchan was a famous Hindi poet, probably helped him to do some nice poetic roles of his career.


Well, the song was sung by the very talented and evergreen singer Mukesh, but Mr Bachchan has truely performed well here.

Main pal do pal ka shayar hoon,pal do pal meri kahaani hai, pal do pal meri hasti hai, pal do pal meri jawani hai...

By the way,the poet, the very talented Sahir Ludhianvi should get a lot of credit here as he is the man who wrote the beautiful Urdu words which Mr Bachchan is seen using to emote in the visuals.

He's basically saying that he's a poet,but his story, his existence, his youth will last only for a while.

Umm...quite wisely said.

Check out the translation...

I'm a poet only for a moment or two...

My story is only for a moment or two

My existence, whole being is only for a moment or two

My youth is only for a moment or two

Many poets came before me, and then departed;

Some went sighing, And some went singing songs.

They were only the story of a moment in time; I too am only the story of a moment.

Tomorrow I will be separated from you, But for today, I'm a part of you. I'm a poet of a moment or two, not more.

Tomorrow new songs will arrive, Fresh blossoms will be plucked.

There will be better storytellers than me,

And better listeners than you.

Tomorrow, someone might remember me;

But why should anyone remember me?

For my sake, Why Should This Busy World Waste Its Time?

I'm A Poet Only For A Moment Or Two


Babetude also like some another Mukesh song Ek din bik jayega maati ke mol which asks the listeners to leave a legacy behind...


Ek din bik jaaegaa, maatii ke mol jag mein rah jaaenge, pyaare tere bol duuje ke hothon ko, dekar apane giit koii nishaanii chhod, phir duniyaa se Dol ik din bik jaayegaa maati ke mol

And the meaning of the same is:

A day will come when you will get sold for the price of clay. All that will be left in the world will be what you have said. So, give your songs to someone's lips. Leave a mark, then leave this world.

Wow,giving people a reality check and great advice,but packaging it as a wonderful song. Very intelligent, must say.

Babetude admires the poets, philosophers and the truely wise who always ended up finding the true meaning of things all the time. And things just turn out to be almost universal then and now.

Like how I said in my previous posts,we only seem to realise things as we turn a little older and a little wiser.

Babetude personally is very happy that she's getting enlightened in her 20s itself, rather then waiting to be so in her 30s and 40s. In fact if it was sooner than that, it would have been better.

Looking forward to the times to come to learn even more, but definitely not the hard way, again!

The sooner you get wisdom the better it is. Drifting makes no sense and wisdom gives one clarity, direction and better choices. Period.

Monday, August 16, 2010

Babetude Wonders...

Now you might think what makes me wonder. Actually right now, it's the very talented Chris Isaak's song with the same name...




When I was younger I believed, that dreams came true.
Now I wonder.
Cause' I've seen much more dark skies, than blue.
Now I wonder.

I keep on praying for a blue sky, I keep on searching through the rain.
I keep on thinking of the good times, will they ever come again?
Now I wonder.
Now I wonder.

I keep on praying for a blue sky, I keep on searching through the rain.
I keep on thinking of the good times, will they ever come again?
Now I wonder.
Now I wonder.

When I was younger I believed, that I could win.
Now I wonder.
There was a time when you and I, walked hand & hand.
Now I wonder.

I keep on searching for the old me, I keep on thinking I can change.
I keep on hoping for a new day, will I ever feel the same?
Now I wonder.
Oh I wonder.
Now I wonder.



This is soul stirring and seems so very real and touching.

The talented man must have really expressed from his heart, as he sat down to pen these lyrics one fine day and later perform the song with his amazing and expressive voice.

I never liked the cover versions of the same as none can beat the original.

Chris Isaak had many more great songs, but this is my personal favorite.

The song rings true, especially now.

Well, when one is a child(the best times for anyone)one can never understand and feel the depth of these words. One is too young, naive and innocent to understand the reality of life, see the true picture of things.

Now this must have come out in the 90s and I really didn’t notice it until now.

Quite late, huh!

But very natural, since then I too was quite the little girl, not growing up fast( I wish I had) - immature, childish and the big dreamer.

Interestingly I have known the 13 year old Salma Hayek- Mathhew Perry film 'Fools Rush in' for a while now. But I just bumped into it while channel surfing only recently and viewed it.

The movie is alright and it’s actually the song which has been used in the movie touched me far more.

It made me like Chris Isaak all over again.

With his quality voice and the lyrics, he makes it sound even more poignant.

I'm sure I'm not alone. Many others(I’m omitting the lucky few here that have had it very easy in life)who have come up the hard way must have felt the same at some points in their lives.

Just after you grow up a bit and become a teenager, the struggle sets in...

A struggle to make things happen, encountering realities of the world, facing both personal and professional situations, some not very kind folks trying to cut you down without any rhyme or reason (actually it only seems so, but they have the reasons -envy, jealousy, competition, whatever they would call it),losing people you care about and loved, lack of emotional support or people who you thought were your own letting you down or hurt by people you felt were your friends, used for selfish reasons, harmed by the ones who you never thought could do so knowingly or unknowingly, unfortunate, painful happenings in life and so on.

Phew,the list is almost endless...

Life isn’t at all a bad of roses for most people. There are many reasons to get disillusioned especially when dreams break. Sometimes I really wish life was a little simpler…

There would be days when one feels totally hopeless, blue, and down and out. At times such as these, the song would sound true but be a solace as well because it also tells you that you are not alone in this. In fact its subtlety and sweetness can actually cheer you up.

When one's going through a low phase or physically, emotionally, financially weak, it seems some rejoice or try to kick him/ her down even further, walk all over him/her.

So it's always better to pray and try to be strong always.

Actually it would have been better if everyone just tried to do his/ her duties, concentrating on his/ her individual space, being happy there, rather than making things difficult for others. Be constructive and progressive without interfering negatively in others lives.

But then, things were, are and will not be that simple and idealistic. It’s always been so and some things are not within one’s control. How some things happen, you never really know…

Yeah guys, when you are little you mostly don’t realize all this and you are so very happy. But the age of innocence comes to an end fast. And that’s the reality of life.

There was this girl from my small town whom I knew as a kid and we were kind of close for a while. She once told me not very long ago that life didn’t give her the opportunity to work after marriage.

Well, actually she didn’t go out into the world( I wanted her to accompany me), experience the city life, slog it out and try to have a professional life. She remained the protected little girl at home, looked after by her mother. Yet she faced many other personal issues and traumas (her mom couldn’t protect her from the same)and today has regrets.

I’ve seen and heard of a few others as well and some admitted to the same too. And I've read enough history including film & entertainment history, seen movies and observed current situations to know what even the rich, the famous, the celebs went/ go through.

My mother who feels she couldn’t realize her full potential in life, said how when one ages, one’s hopes slowly die when things don’t turn out the way one plans.

It sounds negative, but that’s the truth.

There are some mysteries in the world which remain unexplained.

I like to think a lot and that's why such topics keep coming up in my posts. There was a time when my mother used to chide me for being too much of a thinker and a dreamer. Well, now I guess she understands a bit.

Victor Hugo, novelist and dramatist said, "A man is not idle because he is absorbed in thought. There is a visible labor and there is an invisible labor". So thinking is important along with doing things. "Think before you speak, look before you leap"- the old adage is wise and worth practicing too.

We just have to keep the hope alive and the spirits up,whatever the situation might be. Listening to all those who matter and who are worth following, things worth doing can help to heal, to overcome a sad situation. It's easier said than done and it's always up to the person involved.

You got to fight it out and be a survivor and winner.

So don’t think I’m depressing you guys.

Face the realities, keep the faith and don’t ever give up. I know I'm sounding preachy, it's cliché, yet so very true…

Sunday, August 15, 2010

Musical, lyrical, poetic…

India is celebrating her 63rd Independence Day.

Well, like every year(especially so in more recent years)there’s been a lot of talk about the country’s economic growth and development in other sectors.

It’s nice to read and hear the nice things being said and discussed. Especially so, when the wonderful stuff is being said about the country of my birth by the non Indians too, so many miles away from home.

There sure is a lot of growth. But then what about the never ending socio-economic problems as well which haven't decreased as such, in all these years? Poverty, unemployment, the disparity between the rich and the poor, etc is still there. I believe it could have been better. Gandhi and his ideals are still being talked about and were inspirations for others around the world, notably Rev Martin Luther King Jr. and Nelson Mandela( I just got reminded of the same!). But had Gandhi’s ideals been really imbibed by many more in the country whose freedom he brought about, rather than just a few, things sure would indeed have been much better!

Anyway, I won’t get into too much of a heavy discussion of that kind.Simply because I like to talk more about the lighter stuff.

Babetude is going down memory lane as well. But as you know I'm not political.

I would love to talk about and be proud today of Hindi film music since it’s been so popular since the inception of the movie industry. Such is its popularity that pop music and non film music hardly had a market in India.

I also got a recent opportunity to discuss Indian music and movies with a media personality, respected, knowledgeable and totally passionate about art of this kind in the western world. He's taught himself the same in a place where it has limited fans and that's so very amazing. Some people really are incredible!

So today I feel like talking about music...

A struggling music director in Mumbai once told me, becoming a musician is more difficult than becoming an actor. That’s right in a way, as it’s a God given talent which one needs to nurture, develop and one ought to get lucky as well- the music should click with a wide range of listeners! And while the actors took the cake, and got the accolades,became more popular, the singers, the music directors, lyricists and even the directors remained in the back ground and became pillars of their success.

A few interesting Indian films are being churned out very year and it’s good to know that some film makers are trying to make their movies according to the tastes of the international audience- shorter, crisper and more real. And that suits the tastes of the fast moving new generation as well. Many over the years have found our unrelated song sequences and running around trees rather funny. So much so that, somebody once pointed out, “Why are all Indian films musicals?”

Guess it started because music is the lifeblood of Indian culture. Romancing and emoting was associated with music. Singing, dancing and so on...

Thankfully some Indian movies have gotten better and not every film is a formula film where the same story is being told over and over again with some twists and turns.

Also considering the state of film music right now, it’s okay if songs are omitted out in most films.

Techno sounds, unbearable nasal tones, loud beats which could almost damage people’s ear drums, making one feel like banging one's head against the wall, meaningless Hinglish lyrics...

Okay, some of them are foot tapping and can be used to shake a leg or two.

But the fact remains that the compositions have zero staying power. It's easy to forget them a few months after release.

Plus there's the plagiarism, blatantly and shamelessly in the open.

And on top of that, some of them think they can impress all of us by turning westernized!

Hello, wake up guys! Not everyone can be fooled. It's better if you stick to your culture, just like A.R Rahman who's original, versatile and deserving Oscar and Grammy winner.

Gosh, no wonder even younger music lovers like to get away and listen to the oldie-goldies!

And they are far more popular out of the country too, the way true blue fans remember them.

Someone knowledgeable said that the best times for Hindi film music were the 50s to the mid 80s.

Currently the poetry is almost out of the picture, except for a few songs written by the stalwarts- Javed Akhtar, Gulzar and the talented Prasoon Joshi and composed by A.R Rahman and some others.

Take a look at the song( video below). The singer (Kishore Kumar here, one of the best voices from the film music scene) celebrates his love and his love interest comparing it with colors of nature, the beauty of dreams, in fact all things beautiful and so on. He's totally lost in love and his love he says is true, pure, beautiful, and transcends anything material. One lifetime is not enough to enjoy this kind of love. The movie was aptly called 'Prem Pujari'(worshiper of love)!


Idealistic but will always stand out as a wonderful song. Ably supported by the music director and the lyricist of course, who’s a wonderful poet.

This other song( video below) talks about the reality in most people’s lives.
Time just flies and a moment once gone by, will never come back, no matter what. The journey of life is like that.

Before one realises, tables turn and things change. If one has regrets, one has to live with them forever.With his heart touching rendition( Kishore Kumar again),it seems as though the singer is reminding one of the reality- do the right things at the right time, especially in your adult life, to avoid regret and repentance.

Someone rightly commented when he said that in those days it seems that the songs told a story of their own.

Urdu is another great language and it helped to bring out the beauty in most Hindi film songs.


Well, the two actors in the videos- Dev Anand and Rajesh Khanna were lucky enough to get the best songs in the industry during that time. They owe quite a bit of their success to the musical figures behind the songs. It’s another matter though that they are no longer associated with anything remotely close to what they once achieved.

That's for it today. I'll be back again soon to talk about something meaningful! Till then, ciao.